Hi everyone! (Updated 1/22/2026)

Hey there! 👋

Welcome to our little corner of kink!
This is a couples account — you’ll usually hear from me (him), but we both have access to the account and browse it regularly. She jumps in when asked. Just say the word.

We update this profile often because we’re always learning, exploring, and figuring out what turns us on next. It’s a long read, but it saves everyone from the usual “So what are you into?” questions and we tried to make it fun to read.

🚫 Quick Note (Important!)
If you care about who we voted for more than getting to know us as decent human beings, please keep scrolling.

Single guys wanting to play with or “watch” a couple — sorry, not our vibe. Please keep scrolling.

✨ What We’re Looking For:
• Fun, kinky people (couples preferred, but she would love a woman to chat and bond with) within an hour of us to have as friends, naked pals, and kink explorers. Someone to hang out with for spicy and/or vanilla get togethers, like sexy game nights or just dinner and drinks.
• Parties, events, and places to get naked and/or explore our kinky side.
• More knowledge and experience in BDSM.

Basically, we want fun people to laugh with, learn with, have some sexy conversation, and maybe play some spicy games with.
We'd actually like to get to know each other and build a friendship.
It would be ideal if we could find a couple that we are really comfortable with that would be willing to experiment with us and help us figure out our interests together.

💑 About Us

He’s 61 and she’s 60, though you’d never guess it from how we act. 😜
He’s 6ft.
She’s 5ft.- 4”.
Together 9 years, married 6-1/2 and loving our lives together.
We actually dated in high school and both married the wrong person young but eventually reconnected after both divorcing.
We both had very vanilla sex lives in our previous marriages so now we’re making up for lost time.
We’re easygoing, drama-free, open-minded, and good with pretty much anyone who brings fun energy.
We both vape some (the good smelling stuff) and we like a little THC (🌿) now and then to enhance the mood. We’re lightweights though. 😜

Outside the bedroom, you’ll find us:
• Camping in our travel trailer
• Barhopping and finding the best margaritas
• Loving live music
• Hanging with friends and family


🌶 Our Dynamic

We have a great sex life and love keeping things exciting.
We’re new to BDSM, but very enthusiastic about it.
• I’m open to almost anything, at least once, and love expressing myself with her.
Meeting my wife has changed my life big time as far as being able to express myself sexually.
• She’s more cautious but incredibly willing — and her fantasy ideas can surprise (and thrill) me.
• She loves reading books with plenty of hot BDSM and wants to bring that heat into our play time.
• I’ll be serving as her Pleasure Dom as she’s happily, proudly submissive.
• She loves being restrained and a little light impact.
• He enjoys light impact (receiving) but enjoy being restrained as well.

• So, we mix things up to keep it fun!
  
  🔥 Fantasies & Curiosities (The Fun Stuff)
  
  We like being upfront, so here’s where our curious minds wander:
  
  He’s not attracted to men romantically or emotionally, but he does have a little bi-curiosity — or as he jokingly calls it, a bit of “cock fascination,” if that’s even a term.
  He’s picky though: he prefers cut, clean-shaven or well-groomed, and not too big or too small. Yes, he knows he’s particular. 😄
  She recently shared a fantasy of seeing him play with another man, mostly because she knows certain videos of this turn him on from time to time. He’s not actively seeking this out, but if the right couple and the right vibe lined up — with her present and involved — he might be open to exploring it a little.
  He fantasizes about seeing her with another woman... or even another man.
  
  Her newest fantasy is being restrained and pleasured by 3–4 women while he watches, which definitely got his attention.
  She’s generally straight but has been with a woman before and enjoyed it. She enjoys the thought of playing with the right woman... just not to the point of calling herself bisexual.
  
  We’re not saying that any of this is something we're really looking for — just that we’re open to exploring fantasies if the connection, comfort, and chemistry are all there.
  
  👀 Play Style
  
  We only play together — always.
  
  We’re into:
  • Same-room/parallel play at events or with couples we are attracted to who give us a good, comfortable vibe.
  • Light BDSM in the right setting.
  • We participate only as a couple.
  
  We’re not into:
  • Single Men / Dom’s / Bulls etc.
  • Couples where only the male half plays.
  • Full swap.
  • People with bad hygiene.
  • Boyfriend or Girlfriend – we’re very happy in our marriage. We’re only here to spice things up when time allows.
  • Rushing to someone’s house after a few messages.
  
  We’re not going to meet at your place without first having met you in public or at an event.
  We meet in public first — drinks, dinner, or a chill hangout.
  
  To be clear, we’re new at this and nothing will happen fast without first getting to know you a little.
  
  🍹 Who We’d Love to Meet
  
  A couple (40–65ish) who’s:
  • Local-ish
  • Fun, smart, and easygoing
  • Not overly aggressive
  • Into similar vanilla and spicy interests
  
  Bonus if you also believe margaritas are the gateway to truth. 😉
  
  📬 Chatting With Us
  
  We reply to messages with a little substance that say more than “Hey.”
  If you want to grab a drink or share a cool BDSM-friendly event, we’re all ears.
  
  👩❤👨 Friend and Follow requests:
  
  We’re not collecting a huge friend list — just real connections.
  So, we don’t accept requests from:

  • Cheaters
  • Single men
  • Blank/anonymous profiles.
  • People with Antarctica as their location.
  • People that send unsolicited Friend Requests without having met or at least messaged/chatted some.
  • Send us a message and let's chat a bit before sending a Friend Request.

  • Random people we haven’t met or do not intend to meet for various reasons.
    
    
    If we don’t accept your friend or follow request it’s nothing personal. We just limit our # of Friends and Followers for various reasons. None of which we feel the need to explain.
    
    🔒 One Last Thing
    
    If we’ve chatted enough that we feel comfortable sharing our names with you, please keep that information between us. We respect and value your privacy and would appreciate the same in return.
    
    🚫 Final Reminder
    
    Single men wanting to play with or “watch” a couple — we are not interested. Seriously!

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