About me
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- Events & Places
- Networking
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
I am a well-trained girl in many ways of Old Guard, High Tea & Formal Dinner Service, some “Gorean” styles of life, and hosting, in both private and public play, while serving as Dungeon Mistress, and/or Scene Spotter. I also have extensive training in educating others on the various labels in this lifestyle, safety, scenes, and use of several implements for “play”.
I am always eager about researching and learning more.
I am currently ISO individuals and/or resources, that will allow me to brush up/fine tune my personal submissive self, and applicable slave trainings.
I have references available, upon request, to aid in your vetting process.
I have been following, and participating the BDSM lifestyle since 1999, though my introduction to (what I later learned has a name) Domestic Discipline/Head Of Household, occurred in 1993, as a 17 year old.
At the time, my boyfriend/fiancé and father to our first child, was the first person in my life, to provide discipline in a positive and productive manner. We later married, had a second child, and entered the world of “BDSM”.
We had become a recognized Dom/sub couple, then later an M/s poly couple, with him having a beta submissive, and I becoming a beta submissive to another Dominant. The four of us were known as the “fearsome foursome“. We were a family, in every sense possible, often doing many vanilla things, with all our kids, and extended family members.
Upon the dissolution of our marriage, and termination of our M/s dynamic and contract, I was literally signed over, contracted to, and collared by the only other Master that I have belonged to.
That Master provided me with the privilege and experience of living as a 24/7/365 CNC slave, from 2003-2017. I earned my “leathers” in 2006.
I have & carry a Dominant personality, with an Alpha submissive heart, slave soul, and I thrive on being Daddy’s baby girl.
While I am a submissive, make no mistake thinking that I am YOUR submissive! You will be politely warned ONCE; after that, I will handle you as I see fit! All communications are saved.
It has recently become apparent that I need to state the following:
Please DO NOT send me a friend request, prior to asking me permission to do so.
To assume I would welcome such a request, unsolicited, and unexpectedly, leads me to only assume one of two things:
1.) You have zero respect for etiquette and protocols, or
2.) You may be too new to know any better.
In either case, please now consider yourself aware.
Protocol and Etiquette are not just important, they are paramount.
Domestic Discipline, pecking order, protocols, etiquette, rituals, rules, structure, consistency, and honest communication, are genuine expectations & needs for me, not just wants.
Wishing you & your’s a blessed & happy journey,
~Lg
Limits
I have the standard three limits that most others do:
NO minors, NO potty play, and NO beastiality.
Other limits are to be determined, discussed, and put in place as necessary.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Blood Play
- 24/7
- Fear Play
- Blindfolds
- BDSM
- BDSM Branding
- BDSM Collar
- Begging
- Belt Fetish
- Bisexual
- Bondage Bed
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Harness
- Bondage Cage
- Breath Play
- Caregiver / little
- Circumcised Penis
- Collar & Leash
- Cuddling
- Discipline
- Domination
- Edgeplay (Active)
- Edging
- Violet Wand
- Erotic Film
- Erotic Hypnosis
- Erotica
- Female Ejaculation
- Restraints
- Fetish Wear
- Fire Play (Active)
- Figging
- Fisting (Active)
- Floggers
- Hair Pulling
- Rough Sex (Active)
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Knife Play
- Body Modification
- Masochism
- Massage
- Needles
- Orgasm Control
- Spanking Paddles
- Piercings
- Polyamory
- Scratching
- Sensory Deprivation
- Outdoor Sex
- Swimming Pool Sex
- Sex in the Water
- Sex Toys
- Slave Training
- Spanking
- Spreader Bar
- Squirting
- Submission
- Subservience
- Vampire Gloves
- Vibrators (Active)
- Wax Play
- Wand Massager (Active)
- Whips
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No, nor should an ex submissive do the same of the ex Dominant.
I gave three too many chances, after the first time. I have grown wiser in a lot Read more… of ways, yet not enough in other ways.
He may truly love me, or he may not. He may have just been more in love with the idea of love, then the practicality and realities of it. The same to be said about the dynamic he *thought* he wanted.
I am not loved in the ways that I need, though that does not mean he didn’t love me in the only ways he knew how, or was capable of. I am completely convinced that he has commitment issues, that hopefully for his sake, and the sake of others he may choose to be with in the future, that he will take a deep, hard, and honest look at himself. It’s difficult to own our shortcomings, no doubt. I struggle with some of mine, still, though that does not give me permission to avoid them, or pretend they don’t exist.
Yes, my heart hurts right now. Yes, I am a bundle of mixed thoughts, feelings, and emotions. Yes, I’m sure I will heal in time, and be able to look back on this chapter of my life, with a smile, and a nod of appreciation for the lessons it has taught me.
Sir, the one whom I used to call Daddy: My anger set aside, I do truly hope that you are able to find yourself, and your place in this lifestyle. Recognizing what it is and is not for you, recognizing what you want versus what you think you want, while no longer lying to yourself, or others, with the hopes and intentions that just by hoping for something to be true, that it will just manifest itself as such. Either one does, or one does not. Either one is, or one is not.
Please stay safe in all aspects of your life. A part of you will always be with me.
Take care,
With love, the girl you used to call “babe girl”.
NO minors, NO potty play, and NO beastiality.
Other limits are to be determined, discussed, and put in place as necessary.
I am always eager about researching and learning more.
I am currently ISO individuals and/or resources, that will allow me to brush up/fine tune my personal submissive self, and applicable slave trainings.
I have references available, upon request, to aid in your vetting process.
I have been following, and participating the BDSM lifestyle since 1999, though my introduction to (what I later learned has a name) Domestic Discipline/Head Of Household, occurred in 1993, as a 17 year old.
At the time, my boyfriend/fiancé and father to our first child, was the first person in my life, to provide discipline in a positive and productive manner. We later married, had a second child, and entered the world of “BDSM”.
We had become a recognized Dom/sub couple, then later an M/s poly couple, with him having a beta submissive, and I becoming a beta submissive to another Dominant. The four of us were known as the “fearsome foursome“. We were a family, in every sense possible, often doing many vanilla things, with all our kids, and extended family members.
Upon the dissolution of our marriage, and termination of our M/s dynamic and contract, I was literally signed over, contracted to, and collared by the only other Master that I have belonged to.
That Master provided me with the privilege and experience of living as a 24/7/365 CNC slave, from 2003-2017. I earned my “leathers” in 2006.
I have & carry a Dominant personality, with an Alpha submissive heart, slave soul, and I thrive on being Daddy’s baby girl.
While I am a submissive, make no mistake thinking that I am YOUR submissive! You will be politely warned ONCE; after that, I will handle you as I see fit! All communications are saved.
It has recently become apparent that I need to state the following:
Please DO NOT send me a friend request, prior to asking me permission to do so.
To assume I would welcome such a request, unsolicited, and unexpectedly, leads me to only assume one of two things:
1.) You have zero respect for etiquette and protocols, or
2.) You may be too new to know any better.
In either case, please now consider yourself aware.
Protocol and Etiquette are not just important, they are paramount.
Domestic Discipline, pecking order, protocols, etiquette, rituals, rules, structure, consistency, and honest communication, are genuine expectations & needs for me, not just wants.
Wishing you & your’s a blessed & happy journey,
~Lg
San Angelo, Texas
Day4/S4:
The only time(s) I am in a D-type role is with females, or trainees.
I do not, nor will I submit to a woman.
Domestic Discipline is a factor of the dynamic, I have with Daddy. The only control I am to maintain, is my self control, and remembering to “Let go, & Let Daddy”. This is Read more… somewhat still a bit of a challenge for me, at the moment.
Any errands, chores, etc., that I am in “control” of, is only in my control because He has assigned it as such.
His #1 rule for me is to obey, do not cause Him embarrassment, and to always “protect the property”.
I do not identify as a “switch”, because I do not, nor have I been a “Top” to any of my primary D/s relationships, where I have been the s-type.
Q5/S5
I have publicly been a part of this lifestyle since 1999, though over all in it since 1993. 1993-2003=D/s, then sort of M/s
2003-2017=M/s
2017-2019=DV, disguised as D/s, as well as a brief D/s relationship, whom I have recently reunited with
2019-2021=Kinkster(at best), with a few D/s Read more… encounters
2021- until 09/2022=Vanilla
Presently in a D/s relationship with someone from 2019
In the above mentioned relationships, I had been the submissive/CNCslave/lg
I had my own submissive, turned slave from 2009-2013. she was collared to Me, at the time of her murder.
I do not identify as a “switch”, as I do not/have not, nor desire to “switch” with any of my primaries.
I have bottomed to several, for either occasional sessions, demonstrations, or training purposes over the past 29 years.
I have Topped for the same reasons.
I have had active roles as “Trainer” to 5 D-types, and 7 s-types.
All of my relationships, and the dynamics that I was, have similarities as well as differences.
The uniqueness in my current, is that I am His first 24/7 submissive, as well as we are in our dynamic as so much more than just kinksters.
While it could be flattering, the fact that you start conversations with me, in that manner, Read more… immediately negates the flattery, and flips my bitch switch. I ask nicely, ONCE!
If you find me rude, disrespectful, or pretentious, you have a few options:
1.) Do not pursue conversations with me.
2.) Block me, and move along
3.) Notify my Daddy-Dom(His info is on my profile), then refer yourself back to #1 & #2.
I am an Alpha submissive, yes, HOWEVER, I am NOT your Alpha submissive.
Now run along and go play with your friends, before you end up in a time out and a spanking!
This is an fantastic analogy, thank you so very much!
Greetings and good evening,
My first ever Mentor-Dom was strictly online, way back “in the day”(giggles) of AOL, and those web cams that could be attached to the monitor(yes, I am THAT old, lol).
Please know He had very affective ways to not only provide discipline(maintenance, included), He was Read more… also quite creative for punishments.
1.) Video/live footage (or it didn’t happen)
2.) Hand written/printed sentences, essays, apologies, requests for forgiveness, etc.., with a minimum AND sometimes max word count, with proof, or(of course) it didn’t happen. Snail mail, photo attachments in an email, etc..
3.) Self-inflicted enemas
4.) Reaching out to another trusted party in the area of said submissive, to pass along punishment, while on the phone with Him.
Keyboard warriors are convinced they always have the upper hand, until it’s time to have face to face time.
As I grew deeper into my submission, it hurt me to know that I had displeased my Dominant, compared to my days of mostly only being a S.A.M., with little to no remorse for having done so!
Best of luck to you,
~His bg
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