About me
Description
Don't message me if you're in your 20s or younger than me. I'm not interested in switches or men that are less than 100% dominant.
Flexi sub with a multitude of sides to her, but if you want labels I'm a sub with little tendencies and an occasional brat that likes to be petted and given the Princess treatment while giving my Sir (who is 23 years older than me) all my attention and the adoration as he deserves.
Hey there, I'm a spooky gal, gamer, artist and lover of Autumn.
I'm just here to make friends with like minded individuals. If you're a fellow sub and would like a new friend please reach out and say hello!
I'm a Whimsigoth type of girly. I love Autumn, Halloween and all things witchy.
I'm a collared Submissive to my wonderful Sir of 2 years.
Not interested in meets or hook ups and no you can't buy my panties, thank you.
Limits
We're not in a dynamic and I'm not vetting you so you don't need to know my limits.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- 24/7
- Age Play
- Erotic Photography
- Accent Fetish
- Amateur Videos
- Anal Play
- Anal Sex
- Fear Play
- Bathroom Denial
- BDSM
- BDSM Collar
- Begging
- Biting Fetish
- Cosplay
- Cuddling
- Cunnilingus
- Deep Throating
- Dildos
- Dirty Talk
- Discipline
- Domination
- Double Penetration
- Edgeplay
- Violet Wand
- Erotic Art
- Erotic Film
- Erotic Wrestling
- Exhibitionism
- Face Slapping
- Facesitting
- Female Ejaculation
- Restraints
- Fire Play
- Fingering
- Fisting
- Floggers
- Foreplay
- Gangbang
- Hair Pulling
- Handjobs
- Rough Sex
- Humiliation
- Hypersexuality
- Kidnap Role Play
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Costumes
- Lap Dance
- Masks
- Masochism
- Massage
- Masturbation
- Masturbation Machine
- Multiple Orgasms
- Oral Sex
- Orgasm Control
- Spanking Paddles
- Phone Sex
- Porn
- Quickies
- Role Play
- Sadism
- Scratching
- Car Sex
- Outdoor Sex
- Sex In Bed
- Older Sex Partners
- Sex Toys
- Spanking
- Cum Swallowing
- Squirting
- Striptease
- Submission
- Subservience
- Vibrators
- Voyeurism
- Wax Play
- Wand Massager
- Werewolf Fetish
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Yep I did I was tired when I wrote the post and can't edit it
Tbh she doesn't seem to care. I told her it had flared up again this week and she just carried on asking me about everyone/everything else when I wanted to talk about it
I can't edit my post but yes I meant retroactive jealousy, over past relationships etc or my case past subs.
I am I was very tired yesterday
Yeah my bad I was very tired yesterday
It does co-inside with my attachment styles which I am in therapy for so that makes a lot of sense. A journal is a good idea thank you
I think most of the time it's randomly or I'll be reminded about the original trigger and then that will set the cycle off again
No none of them at all, I think a lot of the struggle is because we're LDR. I know one sub still has her FB page from when she was with him 10years ago and I hate that (they where only together for a few months before calling it quits)
Have you found anything that has helped you cope with it? I have been talking to my therapist about it but she Read more…is not a kink therapist and doesn't understand it from a sub perspective.
My Sir does his best to reassure me etc but it's a cycle that seems to come around every few months and I hate that he has to reassure me because it's something I should be able to just get over or not do but my brain is unable to let me move past these things especially with every on social media these days.
I do try to tell myself that he's not with those subs anymore for a reason and they happened many years ago and Sir hadn't had a sub in a very long time before I came in the picture and we've been together for 2 years almost now but it's not enough to counter it when it does flare up.
Any tips of things you've found useful? (Obviously I do communicate with him when it happens so I do talk about it)
Thanks in advance
When your jealousy, react positively and show your reassurance instead of the negative energy that the jealousy has the ability to hold Think of your jealousy to be sexy
When your jealousy, react positively and show your reassurance instead of the negative energy that the jealousy has the ability to hold
Sounds like she is trying to top from the bottom. I personally feel that this isn't a good match for you, if you're unable to communicate with her over this consider it time to move on
It's all about how they nurture your feminine side imo
Degradation and bratting are both things you would discuss with a potential before entering a dynamic with them. So for me in my rules I'm not allowed to brat at 5.30am or before Sir has had his coffee and he has certain rules he has to follow when it comes to degrading me. I think personally from Read more… reading your post your mistake is don't engage with anyone even in word play if you are not at the stage of using honourifics with them, and of course make sure you've vetted them as much as possible and also do your research on sub frenzy too. Wish you all the best in your search
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