About me
Description
Don't message me if you're in your 20s or younger than me. I'm not interested in switches or men that are less than 100% dominant.
Flexi sub with a multitude of sides to her, but if you want labels I'm a sub with little tendencies and an occasional brat that likes to be petted and given the Princess treatment while giving my Sir (who is 23 years older than me) all my attention and the adoration as he deserves.
Hey there, I'm a spooky gal, gamer, artist and lover of Autumn.
I'm just here to make friends with like minded individuals. If you're a fellow sub and would like a new friend please reach out and say hello!
I'm a Whimsigoth type of girly. I love Autumn, Halloween and all things witchy.
I'm a collared Submissive to my wonderful Sir of 2 years.
Not interested in meets or hook ups and no you can't buy my panties, thank you.
Limits
We're not in a dynamic and I'm not vetting you so you don't need to know my limits.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- 24/7
- Age Play
- Erotic Photography
- Accent Fetish
- Amateur Videos
- Anal Play
- Anal Sex
- Fear Play
- Bathroom Denial
- BDSM
- BDSM Collar
- Begging
- Biting Fetish
- Cosplay
- Cuddling
- Cunnilingus
- Deep Throating
- Dildos
- Dirty Talk
- Discipline
- Domination
- Double Penetration
- Edgeplay
- Violet Wand
- Erotic Art
- Erotic Film
- Erotic Wrestling
- Exhibitionism
- Face Slapping
- Facesitting
- Female Ejaculation
- Restraints
- Fire Play
- Fingering
- Fisting
- Floggers
- Foreplay
- Gangbang
- Hair Pulling
- Handjobs
- Rough Sex
- Humiliation
- Hypersexuality
- Kidnap Role Play
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Costumes
- Lap Dance
- Masks
- Masochism
- Massage
- Masturbation
- Masturbation Machine
- Multiple Orgasms
- Oral Sex
- Orgasm Control
- Spanking Paddles
- Phone Sex
- Porn
- Quickies
- Role Play
- Sadism
- Scratching
- Car Sex
- Outdoor Sex
- Sex In Bed
- Older Sex Partners
- Sex Toys
- Spanking
- Cum Swallowing
- Squirting
- Striptease
- Submission
- Subservience
- Vibrators
- Voyeurism
- Wax Play
- Wand Massager
- Werewolf Fetish
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Daddy is much older than me, 23 years in fact. One of my fears as we're LDR is that he will die and no one will tell me. (I'm UK(33) and he's AUS(56)) In the dream he had died and I was trying to find him and no one would tell me where he was and I was trying to find his body Read more…so I could hold him and I just remember that heavy devastating feeling in my chest and when I woke up I just felt so unbelievably sad because I couldn't hug him irl.
This is the second dream I've had about him dying and no one telling me. I feel so hopeless. I love this man so much and the idea of losing him hurts so much. Distance sucks so fricking badly. Daddy is asleep of course I sent him a message about the dream I had but it's just so hard being so emotionally attached to someone and knowing that one day you will lose them too 😭
Any other littles with older Daddies that worry about them dying?
Flexi sub with a multitude of sides to her, but if you want labels I'm a sub with little tendencies and an occasional brat that likes to be petted and given the Read more… Princess treatment while giving my Sir (who is 23 years older than me) all my attention and the adoration as he deserves.
Hey there, I'm a spooky gal, gamer, artist and lover of Autumn.
I'm just here to make friends with like minded individuals. If you're a fellow sub and would like a new friend please reach out and say hello!
I'm a Whimsigoth type of girly. I love Autumn, Halloween and all things witchy.
I'm a collared Submissive to my wonderful Sir of 2 years.
Not interested in meets or hook ups and no you can't buy my panties, thank you.
Oh yes I love lasagna. I love a lot of different meals so it's hard to pick just one but I think one of my favourite things that I cook is my beef and broccoli noodles
Your needs are not being met you need to communicate this with her. It's wonderful you're meeting hers but you need to make sure yours are being met or it becomes one sided and then well it's not a dynamic worth keeping with the wrong person
He does usually but these past two weeks he's been preoccupied with the pain he's been in which is understandable obviously
Yes I feel like I might have it too but sometimes I worry that it's in my head
Just he's had a bad back these past 2 weeks and it's in my rules I'm not allowed to play without permission and I had asked but obviously I got told no because if he's not playing then I'm not playing either it's a together thing. Since I posted this though we have played twice and I did end up Read more… getting a few smackies x
Yea I have felt like I might have undiagnosed bpd for a while now but you know what it's like with tik tok these days everyone is trying to self diagnose etc but I have been looking into a lot of stuff I can relate too in that category
Sirs back has been playing him up a lot lately so it had been over 2 weeks since we had last ✨played✨ and I was going more than a little stir crazy. Admittedly I struggled with it Read more…when I know myself what it's like to have a bad back.
But I'm the kind of person who needs to hear on the daily that I'm wanted, I miss him when he's not being a pervert with me you know?
We literally went from 2/3x a day to nothing and I've really struggled some days with not playing. I have IA-RS (Insecure attachment - Rejection sensitivity) so in my mind the lack of playing and verbal affirmation of hearing that he wanted me meant to me that he was starting to lose interest in me when obviously the reality of that was he was just in pain and hurting to much to think like a horndog. I also have AA-A (Anxious arousal anxiety) (both diagnosed by a licensed physiotherapist) so the anxiousness from feeling that he didn't want me anymore did nothing to help because I just ended up even more so needing to play because I have spent the last 3ish years (prehim) feeling so anxious near enough all the time that I struggle sometimes to tell the difference between feeling anxious and feeling aroused so when I say I struggled hard I mean I really struggled hard with the sudden time out over the last 2 weeks.
Do any of you ladies (Or subs) struggle with either of these things? How do you reassure yourself when you are up against these challenges? Of course I communicated with him over the 2 weeks about it but I need to deal with the feelings of him rejecting me when he isint.
I am in therapy but my therapist is off for another week or two before I see her I believe. (I am unmedicated for my anxiety, don't want meds)
Have you read anything? Listened to anything? I would love to hear about what has helped you.
Thanks in advance xx
I can't wait until I have my own little garden again and I can garden away I miss it very much
On my self hate them on other women a nice medium pair, on men none 😜
You're not a tree, if you feel you no longer identify as a sub and you want to explore being a Dom then go for it
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@DeviantInside brought up a great solution: see if you can get on his emergency list or at leaast his "death list" (a list of people to be notified in the event of death). I didn't know this was a thing, until I woman I care about in another city told me that I was Read more… on hers.
I've had to release a submissive on behalf of a dead dom - for her closure. He died, I was tasked with cleaning his computer; I fired it up, it auto-signed in to some chat rooms, and there she was asking about his health. It hit her hard but was better than not knowing. Maybe your Daddy has someone who will do that for him.