DOMINANT - TEACHER - TRAINER

"To deny ones' true nature and the gifts given you by the gods is to tempt disaster. You cannot hide behind the mask forever.” Midori Snyder -

BDSM Dungeon Mix - Mr. Sir's Spotify Session Playlist
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/24hs15Bjhlumi9OdjzdfV8?si=9xaxvEmmSLaDklIkQAqg0g

Due to the amount of messages I receive here and other places, if you are a prospective submissive that is interested in submitting to me, take the assessment below.

Hi,
I'm Mr. Sir, a (the) Dominant. A prideful man, simply wading through the swamp in search of happiness. Does that mean I haven't found it? Nope, I've definitely found happiness. But my appetite is enormous.


Below, you will find (probably) one of the longest bios on Fet. Either read or don't. However, if you are a submissive, I'd ask for you to read it in its entirety before messaging me. Also, do not send me blind friend requests nor nudes.

So without further ado, let's start with Mr. Sir the man:

~Mr. Sir. The Man. The Enigma.~

• • "He's an unapologetic asshole." Or so I've been told.

• • "He's the best friend you could ever have." Psh... as if. I just want to make sure I have people to help me move heavy things.
  

• • "He's sexy as fuck!" True, true. Can't deny that.
  

• • "He's extremely talented." That award goes to ADHD.
  
  Who am I?
  
  Joking aside, I am a man. The same as the rest, but completely different. I'm intelligent, I'm eccentric, I'm prismatic, I'm social, and I'm somewhat vain. Mr. Sir is a man born of trauma and turmoil, only to obtain happiness by discovering the former and combining it with the latter.
  
  Masculine. Alpha. Dominant.
  Some say they are toxic traits, but I'm a product of my environment. Whether its from nature or nurture, I am who I am. I'm Dominant in everything I do, even unintentionally sometimes. I've been told that I'm too "stoic", that I "intimidate" other men. Some say that a Dominant can't be in thier headspace all the time, and I do agree. However, even when I am not actively "Dominating", im still Dominant. I don't mean to be Dominant all the time, but it's just who I am.
  
  I'm a jack of all trades. I enjoy working with my hands, building things, being creative. I pride myself on perfection, until obtaining perfection annoys me, a blessing and a curse. Projects, I call them, but it's those projects keep me busy and distracted. Projects like restorting classic cars, building motorcycles, writing novels, building BDSM furniture, and being a small business owner.
  
  I love cinema. Music to me is beautiful, and I enjoy something from every genre. I enjoy playing board games, but also love PC games. I love technology and incorporating it into everything. Which is why I'm good at my job as an IT Professional. In my younger years, I was in the U.S. Army until the Taliban placed a few well-aimed RPGs on my turret and gained me a nice Traumatic Brain Injury. Life of an Infantryman...
  
  I'm logical. Whether it's politics, science, or religion. I believe what I can see and feel. I believe in women's rights. I believe racism is a disease. I believe in science. I love debates on philosophy. I'm not a fan of the police. I support LBGTQ+.
  
  Physically, I'm in decent shape. I'm 6'2", 173 lbs, and have an above-average cock. I enjoy looking and dressing well. I take time to fix my hair, straighten my beard, and look presentable. I have tattoos on both arms. I'd have them everywhere if I didn't spend money elsewhere.
  
  I am a Cis Straight Male.
  

  ~Mr. Sir the Dominant~

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• Fluid.
• Stern.
• Fatherly.
• Adaptable.
• Giving.
• Structured.

• Precise.
  
  
  Dominant is a label, a title. One that people can freely give themselves without a thorough understanding of what it actually entails. It's not taking control while you fuck her, that's just sex with extra steps. It's not giving her rules for your pleasure, just because you can. Its understanding what she needs and how to provide it. Its knowing that you will always learn something from her, for her. It's the passion to grow. The dynamic between Dom and sub, Master and slave, Daddy and little is a partnership of exploration and discovery. It's that reason I love the dynamic.
  
  
  I find that I thrive when I'm in my Dominant headspace, which is 24/7 365. Its where I belong. Sometimes I can be a soft Dom and other times I can be a force to be reckoned with. I don't believe in forcing myself into one "Style" or "Type". I am flexible when needed and rigid when not. I prefer rituals, rules, and habits. Again, structure.
  
  
  Mr. Sir believes that pain and punishment, tools for pleasure and correction, need a deep understanding of the recipient, the human. Impact isnt a "One size fits all". I'm extremely creative when it comes to punishment and discipline. I feel its boring to follow the trope of impact for every punishment. Will I piss you off? Absolutely, but the lesson will be learned.
  
  
  I like all forms of the kink. I can be degrading or loving. I can forcibly take what I want or earn your trust. Again, flexible. Want Master to use your mouth as a urinal? Can do. Want Daddy to cuddle with you and watch a movie? Snuggle the fuck up.
  
  
  I love the lifestyle. I love the exchange of power. I love teaching and training. And I don't believe this lifestyle is about sex. Sex is only a byproduct of bdsm.
  

  Mr. Sir's Ideal Submissive~

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  Physical attraction comes first. Judge me if you like, but I don't believe you can be truly committed if that person doesn't stir something inside of you every time you see them. More on that later. A connection needs to be made. Whether through humor or passion, pain or pleasure, the dynamic is a binding of souls.
  
  
  I want her to be fluid, like me. Be open to new experiences. It's okay to know what you want. Its okay to only be a little, submissive, or slave. However, if you're new and inexperienced, don't box yourself in without exploring all that BDSM has to offer. Let a Dominant be your guide. And if you fall on the other side of the line with years of experience, don't be afraid to explore outside of your comfort zone.
  
  
  She should yearn to please. She should live for it. She must be honest. She must learn patience. She must be willing to fight her demons. She must not hide her emotions. She should be strong willed. She should enjoy life. I want an intelligent woman that wants to talk, not just watch tv. She can be introverted or extroverted, but willing to go outside of either comfort.
  
  
  She should be employed (fucking inflation).
  
  Her limits must be reasonable. We all have soft and hard limits, but swearing off anal wouldn't work for me. I prefer she love to worship cock. I prefer she enjoy being in bondage. I prefer she love having her holes used. As long as she's willing to discuss her concerns, Mr. Sir is willing to guide her through them.
  
  
  I prefer slimmer women. Call it "fat shaming" or whatever you would like, but larger women are not my preference. That's not to say that I need her to be perfect. Healthy is the word I would use. Be height and weight proportional. Just because you've got a little bit of squish (don't we all), doesn't mean you're obese. I just prefer my submissive to be healthy and actively take care of her body.
  
  
  Above all, I just enjoy training submissive women. Whether you're a little or a masochist whore. Let me read you a story or piss down your throat. This lifestyle is not a box, and she shouldn't be trapped in one.

  ~Mr. Sirs Final Thoughts~

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  I have a submissive (@SirsBirdReborn). I do not have a "number" of submissives I want. Training is me. It's who I am. It's my purpose. That said, I prefer the 24/7 lifestyle. Yes, 24/7, 365. But, I also enjoy teaching and training even if it's scheduled once a month. You decide where you fall.
  
  
  So if you've made it this far, congratulations. You have successfully completed:
  ☆Introduction Essentials: Mr. Sir☆
  
  Since you've made it to the end, if you want to explore the possibility of submitting to Mr. Sir, follow the link below and take the submissive/slave Assessment. Once completed, Sirsbirdreborn or I will contact you.
  
  (Links seem to be broken on this app, you can find the linked assessment below at Mr-Sir.com)
  https://jnudo2xfo7e.typeform.com/to/rfW8XWpN
  
  The next modules in this course are:
  
  ☆Mr. Sir. Is he really that good?☆
  
  ☆Fuck, now the couch is wet.☆
  
  ☆How does he know so much?☆
  
  Extra Stuff and Things:
  

• • Hard Limits: Scat. Raceplay. Vomit. Switching. Cutting. Blood. Branding. Beastiality. Edge (Hardish... takes a tremendous amount of trust and understanding of blood flow).
  

• • Favorite movie/s: Interstellar, The Matrix, and Titanic.
  

• • Yes, Mr. Sir is writing a novel. It's a fictional romance/mystery/smut with a heavy BDSM theme. 140k words (26 Chapters) currently completed.
  

• • I don't like Trump or Jesus. Everybody sucks.
  

• • Mr. Sir's website is currently "Under Construction". He is revamping with more writing and education. Be patient.

Hard Limits: Scat. Raceplay. Vomit. Switching. Cutting. Blood. Branding. Beastiality. Edge (Hardish... takes a tremendous amount of trust and understanding of blood flow).