This is exactly my thoughts when my previous partners have been with others.
In my thoughts and opinion about myself i wouldn't be a true submissive if my main focus and pleasure is the pleasure and entertainment and enjoyment of my owner. Xx

My personal experience and feelings for loving seeing my partner with others comes from a few places within me.
1. I'm hugely submissive and love being degraded and humiliated and this is seen as the ultimate humiliation, especially if you watch, join in or clean up.
2. I'm a huge fan of group Read more… sex, watching and being involved.
3. Knowing she's been excited and had fun but then still coming home to me turns me on.
4. Mixes all the above points, but top and bottom of it all my sexual thoughts, feelings and general attitude to sex is have as much fun as possible and be as naughty and kinky as you can be we only live once so why get hung up on it.

Most definitely.
Small cocks need to be caged and only be allowed to cum from anal sissy pussy fucking

I've had a very very similar experience other than my cage wasn't glued. But the keys my ex did give to one of her friends and I never knew which one. If it was a male or female friend. The rule was if I wanted it back I could ask one friend a month if they had it and had to serve them in anyway Read more… they desired for at least an hour befire they gave me the answer, if i had pleased and served to the desired level even if they had the key they could say no and if they said no I had to wait until the next month. Once I found it I was unlocked for teasing and ruined orgasms then locked and different friend took the keys.
The services I had to perform for the answer to the key where mostly infront of a group, having to degrade and humiliate myself, orally pleasing them and others, having my sissy pussy fucked... and the list goes on but you get the idea haha.

I've noticed that a bit myself and even fake dommes acting like that is the only way.
For me that is me and my kink and 2nd persona. Outside of work.and family I live this way as often as possible. And the worse I'm treated the better for me. But I've been in this lifestyle for over 25 years, it Read more… never started this way. It's grown and I've became needing and craving to be the sissy i am and treated worse and worse during play sessions as time has gone on.
It's not for everyone. But this is me.
It makes the importance of setting limits at the start vital. Or it could mentally destroy someone. Which is most definitely not what should happen, ever. Xxx

Yes I totally agree. I used it as an example as I am a sissy sub haha.
But yes it all has to be within both partners limits and within the boundaries of consent which need to be set out by the talk at the start about limits. 👍🏻

Oh yes. Personally for me as a chastity bi sissy cuckold submissive, to be allowed to watch and especially join in when my partner has an alpha male fucking her is the ultimate honour, privilege and reward.
I have to admit I and the fantasy for a while before it happened and the 1st time I found Read more… hard after it for a week or two but then found myself craving that level humiliation and degrading again and I'm then the need and cravings just got more and more to the point now I beg for it and take cmgreqt pride in getting my partner dressed and made up ready for her bull.

Personally I say yes if it's to small to please anyone and your relationship with you keyholder is a longterm one and you have given consent to be caged then it's up to the keyholder how long the chastity term lasts.. as long as they unlock you to wash.. supervised of course.
Sometimes it's a Read more… case of be careful what you wish for haha

All the advice here is excellent.
My personal thoughts and experiences are as follows.
Never expect it to be like it is in porn.
Never jump in with a stranger, especially if they ask for money, tributes, vouchers etc..
Always be 100% respectful to all dominants.
Make sure you're not just wanting Read more… to live out a fantasy or there for a quick wank.
Be honest from the very start about what you desire to get from the dynamic and about your limits. For example if are willing to be feminised or if that's a limit.
Build a connection before you dive in.
Your true pleasure should come from the pleasure and desires of your dominant and not your own needs and you need to be willing to do everything your dominant says, a true dominant will not go against your limits or want you uncomfortable.
And once more I'll say this as it's vital. Always be respectful, 100% of the time no matter what.
I hope this helps and you find someone soon that matches with you. Good luck.